It seems like we can't even have a decent conversation anymore without one of us ending up yelling because as of right now he doesnt have a job, we're bearly making ends meet and it seems as if anytime we do get to do something, we can't really have a good time because he has to bring up finances, and the fact that we are broke and it really stresses me out because he always makes comments like "that retard over there can get a job but i cant" and "it doesnt take an idiot to flip hamburgers", and "i just want to kill everyone, f*** it, i hate everyone. he always threatens violence and it really bothers me. I just dont know what to do, the fact that he cant get a job is really putting a strain on our relationship. I understand he's upset but the way he acts sometimes and some of the things he says really bother me.