...i do? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1year 7months and we live together.The past month he has been gone every weekend all weekend.. I am home alone all the time. So recently i told him how i felt and let him know that i wanted him to spend more time with me. He said "well i wish you didnt care so much but since you do maybe we shouldnt be together." So I have been staying at my moms and he texts me saying i miss you and writes me notes saying i dont want to lose you please dont leave. We have been together so long I dont want to just throw the relationship away. But i dont know if he will really change or if he even wants to.. I just dont understand the sudden change.