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<blockquote data-quote="CarolineP" data-source="post: 2344027" data-attributes="member: 296292">...with them? So my boyfriend and I were together for about 6 months before he introduced me to some of his closest friends. I hit it off with his friends and love it when the 4 of us spend time together. His friends are a married couple with kids and I love kids so it&#039;s great for me to spend time there. I started to hang out with the wife and then she was talking to me about how it&#039;s so hard working and paying for daycare. I offered to babysit whenever I can, and so I&#039;ve been spending time at their place taking care of the kids while she goes to work. My boyfriend was a bit weird about it, like reminding me that they are his friends, but said he was really happy that I was helping them out. Now I have organised for the 4 of us to get together and he is really shitty at me, saying that he should be allowed to instigate things because they are his friends.Did I really do the wrong thing? Should I not talk to her about us all meeting up when I am there babysitting?I am not sure what to do, I hate him being upset with me, but I really think it is good for him to spend time with his mates, so why isn&#039;t he happy I am helping facilitate this?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="CarolineP, post: 2344027, member: 296292"] ...with them? So my boyfriend and I were together for about 6 months before he introduced me to some of his closest friends. I hit it off with his friends and love it when the 4 of us spend time together. His friends are a married couple with kids and I love kids so it's great for me to spend time there. I started to hang out with the wife and then she was talking to me about how it's so hard working and paying for daycare. I offered to babysit whenever I can, and so I've been spending time at their place taking care of the kids while she goes to work. My boyfriend was a bit weird about it, like reminding me that they are his friends, but said he was really happy that I was helping them out. Now I have organised for the 4 of us to get together and he is really shitty at me, saying that he should be allowed to instigate things because they are his friends. Did I really do the wrong thing? Should I not talk to her about us all meeting up when I am there babysitting? I am not sure what to do, I hate him being upset with me, but I really think it is good for him to spend time with his mates, so why isn't he happy I am helping facilitate this? [/QUOTE]

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