later.Shd i keep dis relation n giv him tym? My boyfriend met a girl online and he called her for a treak of 4 days with us. We have not yet disclosed our relation to anyone yet even if we are into an relation since 5 years. In this 4 day treak i noticed a tremendous change in his behaviour and he started being with her for more time. sometimes i felt its just a good friendship but they started getting more closer to each other. i didnt knw what was going on so i asked him to clarify it frankly to me and told not to play double games.He said its nothing like that and she is just a friend but still continued with the same. We had some family issues to our relation that time so we also tried to break-off but he came to me and told me to wait for him evrything gonna be allright.But then one fine day he told me a truth which put me in shock. He continued to share an intimate relation with that girl and also was physical with her to some extent. But told me evrything truly.On this note i tried to forgive him but cant let this off from my mind now that he tried to cheat on me.Another thing what comes to his mind now is that he had stopped all contacts with her but says he loved her coz she helped him in his bad times to understand himself in better way. He says no one has ever understood him so much better before. He also says she told my boy friend he doesnt knw what he wants from his own life and he also realised its truth later.He says he knws he is doing injustice to me but says that he wants time to understand whether it was Love between both of them or it is Love between us. I Love him a lot and will break down into pieces if he does something negetive with me. But at same time also want him to be true to himself and be with me because he loves me and not because he is just commited to me since 5 yrs.
Should i give him time as its already high-time now to realise whether He loves me????coz we are together since 5yrs and also totally close to each other physically and mentally.We share each n evrything small thing with each other.I personally think that what was between them was just some infactuation towards a new person in life who tried to know him better....which can be taken as an admirer but not Love.
Should i give him time as its already high-time now to realise whether He loves me????coz we are together since 5yrs and also totally close to each other physically and mentally.We share each n evrything small thing with each other.I personally think that what was between them was just some infactuation towards a new person in life who tried to know him better....which can be taken as an admirer but not Love.