My boyfriend smokes weed... help!?

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my boyfriend of almost two years has been smoking pot basically his whole life. I didn't really have a problem with it until i noticed it affected how he acts. He never wants to do anything except watch tv. I ask him to play cards or a board game or go out and he says he doesn't feel like it. So all we do together is watch tv.

Thats not even the worst part, he borrows money from me to buy weed and says he will pay me back the next day. He never pays me back until weeks later or even months. He doesn't have money for rent because he buys weed, and he doesn't see a problem with it. I have to pick up the slack. What should i do, i love him but i hate his addiction. Please help!
 
Whats wrong with you? You shouldnt have got with him in the first place. Dump him.
 
Get him in to a program

http://www.marijuana-anonymous.org/
or
http://www.na.org/

All you can do is ask him to do it for you. If he won't quit then you need to ask yourself if it's worth staying with him.
 
hmm my answer would be stop giving him your money if you know that is all he is going to do leave him kick him out love him for love you do not have to put up with bullsh@t ONE HAND DOES NOT CLAP haven't you ever heard that saying.
get your act together is either you tolerate him and his weed a$$ smoking no brainier attitude or you take action sometimes people have to see the true reality of themselves and the situation for things to fall into place. kick him out or go live with uh parents for the while
 
Weed is not an addiction it is a way of life, and if it really just makes him lazy then you may want to just let him go. but, you can stop giving him money and watching tv with him, soon he will feel lonely and want to go places with you. Hope this helps Peace
 
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