My boyfriend wants to go farther than I do, but I want to keep him interested,

Electra

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what do I do? How can I tell him to not go across my comfort border while keeping him interested in me? He's a senior and I'm a sophomore and I've been trying to get him for the past year, and I don't want to loose him.
thank you :)
 

mariekitt24

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If he's just interested in your for the sex, there isnt much you can do, but you wouldnt want to stay with anyway if thats all it was. Unfortunately I think he probably does have different ideas about what a relationship is, and most likely isnt compatible with you because of that. He wants what he wants, and if you arent going to give it to him, hes probably just going to look elsewhere, only a matter of time. dont give in though, its good of you to have boundarys and self respect. You should find a man that also shares those same ideas, that is with you for you, not sex or sexual type things.
 
you are obviously at different points in your life... if you aren't on the same page, one of you is going to get dumped... and i suspect you being the less mature, will be left weeping...

and if you aren't interested in sex, WHY ARE YOU DATING??? you should have just been friends...
 
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