my boyfriend went limp during sex.. what does this mean? (men please help)?

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ok my boyfriend asked me to give him head and i refused because i wasnt in the mood... but i asked him for some and he told me he has a cut in his mouth so therefore he really doesnt want to do it... next after silent treament on both ends my boyfriend reaches for me and pulls me on top. but im like a limp rag doll bc i really wasnt in the mood.so i just lay there on top of him.. then after negotiating with me i deside to go down on him but his dick wouldnt get compltely hard but he insist it will once we begin to have sex.. but during sex his erection was very soft.. but kinda firm.. then in the middle of sex he just went completely soft and my feelings got hurt because this has never happend to us before.. i tried going down on him again but it didnt work he just told me to lay with him and cuddle. he began snoring and fell asleep.. i started crying. i asked him is it me and he said he just wasnt in the mood after i turned him down. is that possible? or could that mean something else please help..idk what to think. i guess a guys would understand this a little bit more than women...
ps. he used a penis pump bout and hour be fore we had sex...and he has been taking extends lately but i dont think he took one tonite. (but he might have idk)
 
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Hi there, I have also been threw a similar situation with my long term boyfriend, Now ex-. We had always had amazing sex some time for hours, sometimes 7 times a day. About 3 years into are relationship things started to change. He would have odd hours he could not be home, told me he had work late, when he would come home, he acted weird than he would try to be lovable... so for a whole year, I had bad thoughts in my head and ignored them, till we started to have sex and he acted like he was not with it, like he had something else on his mind, and could not get it up, he would act frustrated and keep trying to please me, I would too cry and push him off me, He was having sex with other women which is why we broke up, but we would have amazing sex and 10 min into it it would be so soft it stopped, I would give him head which he loves when I go down on him, and it did not turn him on... My opinion no matter how much you think you know your man, He may be involved with other women, and he is confusing his emotions because he cant remember who he has feelings for cause he is all stressed inside trying to please more than 1 person... I would confront him, or do what I did and tell him a female got my number out of his cell and called me and told me about him and her.... Anyways Girl wish you luck
 
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