asks me to borrow money for gas? and im sure he spends some of it on cigarettes when he knows i hate it so why would i support his Habit and give him money towards something I am against? Am i wrong for being mad that hes asking me for money, if he stopped smoking he would have money for gas and food and not have to mooch off me i don't care that we've been together for almost 3 years. i hate cigarettes and will never lend money to anyone for them.