My cat is 1 year old, and he's so gentle. He has never scratched me, and loves attention and being stroked. But when I try to pick him up, he still doesn't scratch or anything, but he REALLY struggles to get down. I'm pretty sure i'm holding him properly (can someone tell me how to just to make sure?) but he just hates being picked up. Why could this be? at first i thought maybe he was afraid we might drop him from that height, then i saw him on next doors shed which kinda proved me wrong 
Thanks,
Andy

Thanks,
Andy