- I just don't understand.. my dude calls me & also has asked me five times what I wanted for christmas & I told him.. I don't know & just surprise me.. I thought your not suppose to know what your getting for christmas.. & it all just be one big surprise.. I told him it doesn't matter what he gets me I will love it. but instead he's telling me I'm not getting anything b/c I can't tell him.. lol! now ain't this just CRAZY! 