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<blockquote data-quote="sweetecaroline" data-source="post: 2461053" data-attributes="member: 724405">HAve you heard of someone &quot;stringing someone along&quot;?&nbsp; That is what she is doing to you. She probably was cheating on&nbsp; you and may want to date others, but she is stringing you along in case it doesn&#039;t work out.&nbsp; With working 2 jobs she is busy and her dad may be a problem, but still you were not complaining.&nbsp; I think she just wants to date others and not be tied down to one person.&nbsp; Anymore people jump into a relationship way too soon.&nbsp; They don&#039;t take the time to get to know one another more or to date others to see the qualities one likes in a girl or guy.&nbsp; and people get hurt.she may not know what love is.&nbsp; So when she tells you she loves you, she may feel affection for you, and she may mix that up with love. She evidently does get things mixed up and if she has a rocky relationship with her dad and was in an abusive relationship before, she has problems and may not understand love.&nbsp; Whether or not she can someday find real love and make a commitment is hard to say.&nbsp; She may need counseling.don&#039;t think this is not over.&nbsp; You need to move on with your life.&nbsp; she might be more interested if&nbsp; you sent the tshirts back saying&nbsp; you didn&#039;t need them anymore.&nbsp; I think she wants what is not good for her.&nbsp; She is choosing men who are &quot;exciting&quot; but not nice guys.&nbsp; It could be because her dad is a problem and may be abusive to her in some ways or is demanding.&nbsp; women who stay with losers who hurt them have a need for excitement but at a cost to them.&nbsp; The guys don&#039;t really love them, but may be possessive.&nbsp; it sonuds terrible but you might be too nice a guy for her.&nbsp;&nbsp; Dn&#039;t change though. There will be someone who will apprecitae&nbsp; you.&nbsp; if down the road she wants to come back, you would be better to insist she get counseling first with a psychologist. She needs to work out her problems and hang ups before she can reall y love anyone.&nbsp; ou don&#039;t need the rollercoaster ride she will give you.Good luck to you.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="sweetecaroline, post: 2461053, member: 724405"] HAve you heard of someone "stringing someone along"? That is what she is doing to you. She probably was cheating on you and may want to date others, but she is stringing you along in case it doesn't work out. With working 2 jobs she is busy and her dad may be a problem, but still you were not complaining. I think she just wants to date others and not be tied down to one person. Anymore people jump into a relationship way too soon. They don't take the time to get to know one another more or to date others to see the qualities one likes in a girl or guy. and people get hurt. she may not know what love is. So when she tells you she loves you, she may feel affection for you, and she may mix that up with love. She evidently does get things mixed up and if she has a rocky relationship with her dad and was in an abusive relationship before, she has problems and may not understand love. Whether or not she can someday find real love and make a commitment is hard to say. She may need counseling. don't think this is not over. You need to move on with your life. she might be more interested if you sent the tshirts back saying you didn't need them anymore. I think she wants what is not good for her. She is choosing men who are "exciting" but not nice guys. It could be because her dad is a problem and may be abusive to her in some ways or is demanding. women who stay with losers who hurt them have a need for excitement but at a cost to them. The guys don't really love them, but may be possessive. it sonuds terrible but you might be too nice a guy for her. Dn't change though. There will be someone who will apprecitae you. if down the road she wants to come back, you would be better to insist she get counseling first with a psychologist. She needs to work out her problems and hang ups before she can reall y love anyone. ou don't need the rollercoaster ride she will give you. Good luck to you. [/QUOTE]

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