the reason why im asking is because i am a virgin (19) and i left him (23) because he couldnt commit to me. i told him i wouldnt sleep with someone like that because i actually want to love that person...(also him and I have been friends for about 2 years now so its not just some random guy)...months lafter after i walked away, here he is contacting me and asking me to meet up and come over to his place he just moved into. i mean if he knows what my terms are, what is he really after? ps. hes the type that has many girls he can sleep which makes me wonder even more why me?