...didnt do 1 thing to my son HELP? My ex wife lives in Tulsa about 100 miles from OKC; I bought her a 20k car; I didnt do 1 thing to my son HELP; The car is free and clear; basically on Xmas my son got mad because I wanted him to keep his Guitar Hero here and not take home; we have always had a great relationship; I always see him every 2 weeks; a few years ago I was making a ton of money and sending her like $1k sometimes more than on top of that I bought her a ford expedition; after that mild arguement in which he took the guitar hero; now I am not making as much money and can only send her $200 a month; so now she wont let me see him; its been 8 months; I have the title free and clear on the car and am not in a great financial position; can anyone give me suggestions on how to handle it; should i repo the car; i need the money bad; also during this time; my brother killed himself; and without telling me she told him he is 12 years old; i think that is so out of bounds; that was my decision; she never called or anything I have been been very nice about this but now I need to do something any help would be appreciated; do i have to pay child support; back when i was making alot of money i paid 4 times a month what i was supposed to pay; any help thank you!