My father tells me dirty jokes, and it creeps me out.?

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It's very disturbing as I see it bordering on incestuous behavior, and it bothers me that he doesn't respect his 22 year-old daughter enough as a lady not to act this way around her. There is a very drunken, abusive history behind us, and this issue is just one of many that indicates to me a father that simply does NOT see me as a female to be respected. I'll even cut him off mid-joke to tell him that his jokes don't interest me, and he'll purposely talk over me so as to make sure I hear them. Oddly, I've actually watched him stop himself from acting this way around other females. I don't understand what I did to this man - I'm a respectable, happy, healthy, attractive daughter. He's never made a thorough attempt at being a good parent or husband or human being and he offers no apology for his influence in our lives.

The man gives me goosebumps. I have no idea why my mother has bothered with him for this long and has the nerve to chastise other husbands. I don't live at home anymore, but I do visit the rest of my family most weekends and he never ceases to impress. Anyways, does this crude behavior strike anyone else as particularly deranged even among otherwise normal fathers?
I post it more than once to hear as many POV's as possible. If it bothers you, go do something else.
Healthy = attractive. I should have only included healthy, really, but you're just splitting hairs because I bet you act just as deviously with other people, eh buddy?
 
did you just say you were attractive, what does that have to do with your father, sounds like you want him to make a move you, his daughter, and that is sick, i think you're the one with problems
 
Well, since this is the second time you've asked this question, maybe you should just stab him with a kitchen knife or something?
 
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