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<blockquote data-quote="Notyme4BS" data-source="post: 2406286" data-attributes="member: 783222">You&#039;re both right.&nbsp; There is nothing &quot;wrong&quot; with public displays of affection just as long as it is respectful.&nbsp; How if he&#039;s grabbing a hand full of butt or breast in front of gradma, that&#039;s creepy.&nbsp; However, if you&#039;re not comfortable then you have that right as well.&nbsp; My wife and I had this problem.&nbsp; We solved it with communication and discussing our issues with it.&nbsp; My wife isn&#039;t okay with affection in front of her family, so we compromised by finding places to be alone for a passionate kiss when around family.&nbsp; For example, she would ask me to go to the garage and help her with something, and while we&#039;re there we would get pretty physicl for about 2 or 3 minutes.&nbsp; And it was the same with the kids.&nbsp; When we first met she was okay with affection in front of her daughter.&nbsp; She felt it was normal, natural, and healthy to see two married adults showing affection at home, until her daughter started mimicing these behaviors with her dolls.&nbsp; Then she would start pulling away from me and it caused problems.&nbsp; I felt unwanted and undesirable until she explained how she felt..so we learned to start doing the same things we do at her family&#039;s house.If you are going to do this, you are going to have to be proactive with it.&nbsp; You are going to have to pull him away and make up excuses to get him alone.&nbsp; That way he doesn&#039;t feel like he&#039;s begging.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Notyme4BS, post: 2406286, member: 783222"] You're both right. There is nothing "wrong" with public displays of affection just as long as it is respectful. How if he's grabbing a hand full of butt or breast in front of gradma, that's creepy. However, if you're not comfortable then you have that right as well. My wife and I had this problem. We solved it with communication and discussing our issues with it. My wife isn't okay with affection in front of her family, so we compromised by finding places to be alone for a passionate kiss when around family. For example, she would ask me to go to the garage and help her with something, and while we're there we would get pretty physicl for about 2 or 3 minutes. And it was the same with the kids. When we first met she was okay with affection in front of her daughter. She felt it was normal, natural, and healthy to see two married adults showing affection at home, until her daughter started mimicing these behaviors with her dolls. Then she would start pulling away from me and it caused problems. I felt unwanted and undesirable until she explained how she felt..so we learned to start doing the same things we do at her family's house. If you are going to do this, you are going to have to be proactive with it. You are going to have to pull him away and make up excuses to get him alone. That way he doesn't feel like he's begging. [/QUOTE]

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