So, my sister and I both do martial arts. We have been doing it for 8 years and are both black belts. I turned 16 on thursday and she turned 18 yesterday.
She is really into Demo Team. The Instructor he does the Demo team is super good at martial arts, and through out the years our family has built trust with him.
Until Friday, we learned that he had taken her to a bday dinner alone, to Seattle, (We live in Kirkland, so its closeish..)
It was supposed to be a bunch of people but it was just him and her, he is in his late 30's.
He told her that she has become an attractive young lady and that he had an attraction to her, and telling her that things have changed between them. And that some guys on the team were worried they were becoming too close. My sister is very ignorant and didnt know what was happening before this point.
He is married and has 2 little girls. My sister is quitting martial arts and Demo team, I have the choice to quit.
He did not touch her innappropriatly though
If I quit, I would go to a diffrent martial arts academy about 10 minutes farther away. The same type of martial arts. I would be able to keep my belt.
Do you think I should leave?
There are two teachers at my school. The creepy old man who lost all of our trust. And another man who is great and still has my familys trust. He teaches most of the classes.
My sister mentioned that a couple months ago the gross old man started more ground sparring. When before they never did it. (This is when you are laying on top of eachother. For guys it is a blast to be against girls... He is a gross old man.)
So thankyou all for the answers!
The type of martial arts that I do is very diffrent. There are only a few schools. There were 3 that were all connected before the founder decided to go off alond. So it was just us and the other school. My school decided to break off so we are all on our own but with the same teachings and stuff.
So I already know the other instructors.
One more thing. I have to give a reason for wanting to leave. But it didnt happen to me, it happened to my sister.
She is really into Demo Team. The Instructor he does the Demo team is super good at martial arts, and through out the years our family has built trust with him.
Until Friday, we learned that he had taken her to a bday dinner alone, to Seattle, (We live in Kirkland, so its closeish..)
It was supposed to be a bunch of people but it was just him and her, he is in his late 30's.
He told her that she has become an attractive young lady and that he had an attraction to her, and telling her that things have changed between them. And that some guys on the team were worried they were becoming too close. My sister is very ignorant and didnt know what was happening before this point.
He is married and has 2 little girls. My sister is quitting martial arts and Demo team, I have the choice to quit.
He did not touch her innappropriatly though
If I quit, I would go to a diffrent martial arts academy about 10 minutes farther away. The same type of martial arts. I would be able to keep my belt.
Do you think I should leave?
There are two teachers at my school. The creepy old man who lost all of our trust. And another man who is great and still has my familys trust. He teaches most of the classes.
My sister mentioned that a couple months ago the gross old man started more ground sparring. When before they never did it. (This is when you are laying on top of eachother. For guys it is a blast to be against girls... He is a gross old man.)
So thankyou all for the answers!
The type of martial arts that I do is very diffrent. There are only a few schools. There were 3 that were all connected before the founder decided to go off alond. So it was just us and the other school. My school decided to break off so we are all on our own but with the same teachings and stuff.
So I already know the other instructors.
One more thing. I have to give a reason for wanting to leave. But it didnt happen to me, it happened to my sister.