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<blockquote data-quote="engr_tam" data-source="post: 2432319" data-attributes="member: 834462">You seem to be very mature in that you think dating 7-8 months is not enough to move in together. It&#039;s a big change for you and your sister, and it is hard to feel powerless in saying anything. Even though you don&#039;t think you can&#039;t talk to your mom, does she know how you feel? Does your sister feel the same way? If you can&#039;t get through to your mom, is there any way you are comfortable talking to your mom&#039;s bf? You and your sister could try to sit down with him and let him know that you both like him, but you&#039;re afraid that his relationship with your mom is moving a little too fast for you two. You could suggest waiting a little bit or come up with ways to make the adjustment more bearable, for example, you and your sister get your mom for one night a week for girls night, or whatever. In the meantime, I know you are frustrated and angry. See if you can hang out with your friends for the afternoon. Keep your chin up. It sounds like you care for your family very much. Things will work out. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":-)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :-)"&nbsp; data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":-)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="engr_tam, post: 2432319, member: 834462"] You seem to be very mature in that you think dating 7-8 months is not enough to move in together. It's a big change for you and your sister, and it is hard to feel powerless in saying anything. Even though you don't think you can't talk to your mom, does she know how you feel? Does your sister feel the same way? If you can't get through to your mom, is there any way you are comfortable talking to your mom's bf? You and your sister could try to sit down with him and let him know that you both like him, but you're afraid that his relationship with your mom is moving a little too fast for you two. You could suggest waiting a little bit or come up with ways to make the adjustment more bearable, for example, you and your sister get your mom for one night a week for girls night, or whatever. In the meantime, I know you are frustrated and angry. See if you can hang out with your friends for the afternoon. Keep your chin up. It sounds like you care for your family very much. Things will work out. :-) [/QUOTE]

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