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<blockquote data-quote="AuntMary" data-source="post: 2054246" data-attributes="member: 739786">Hey John, being a mother of a 29 year old son, I can understand your mother.&nbsp; You are all she has had since your dad died, yes that was quite a few years ago, however, she sees herself losing you to &quot;that woman&quot; so she has to try and make her look bad as much as possible, be it by sledging her, the gifts she gives you or by making stuffing that she knows she will not eat.&nbsp; Your mum is afraid that once you get married you won&#039;t want her any more. &nbsp;Maybe it is a good idea to move in with your lady now and give your mum a chance to get used to you not being around all the time.&nbsp; However, make sure you see her regularly, not every day but frequently during the week.&nbsp; Show her that she isn&#039;t losing you.&nbsp; She might be a bit sullen for a while but she will come around when she sees that you are still wanting her in your life.When you get married, make sure she is included in the preparations.&nbsp; Good luck, I hope it all works out for you.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="AuntMary, post: 2054246, member: 739786"] Hey John, being a mother of a 29 year old son, I can understand your mother. You are all she has had since your dad died, yes that was quite a few years ago, however, she sees herself losing you to "that woman" so she has to try and make her look bad as much as possible, be it by sledging her, the gifts she gives you or by making stuffing that she knows she will not eat. Your mum is afraid that once you get married you won't want her any more. Maybe it is a good idea to move in with your lady now and give your mum a chance to get used to you not being around all the time. However, make sure you see her regularly, not every day but frequently during the week. Show her that she isn't losing you. She might be a bit sullen for a while but she will come around when she sees that you are still wanting her in your life. When you get married, make sure she is included in the preparations. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you. [/QUOTE]

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