...not that much into PDA but for wh? but for whatever reason, I suddenly have changed my views on this matter. Back in high school, I hated seeing couples kissing/holding hands partly because I didn't have a bf but also because honestly I think PDA is gross. I know alot of people will disagree with me but if ya do, you obviously didn't have couples macking on one another in the hallways OR you are in a relationship with someone who openly expresses their feelings for you but anyway, my ex never did the latter. He's a great guy - don't get me wrong. Our breakup was crucial - he didn't ask to be his girlfriend - that seemed like a bigger issue now than i thought it was. he just assumed we were dating with me have no say it in it really. when i asked him to become my bf, he was like, "Well, I don't want to break up with you," which was sweet but anyway, we only kissed once - we were each other's first kisses and I dunno how felt about my kissing ability but if I were to grade it, it'd be an F. That's harsh, yes but he was a bad kisser. AFTER WE KISSED, I didn't feel anything, it was dry - not his lips but but just how i felt - there seemed to be nothing that made me feel any sort of feeling, except sadly regret that I had kissed him. that's a red flag and thank god that was our only kiss but ANYWAY for someone who's been had a HUGE crush on me for years, he wasn't really expressive with his feelings - we had circumstances that made getting alone time impossible but regardless he hated PDA so you could say it was intimacy-less relationship. The other thing bugged me was he told me "I love you" over the phone - he's a shy guy but still. It would've been nice for him to say it face-to-face which upset me. OPINIONS PLEASE - BUT NOT ONES THAT TELL ME PDA is wonderful because I KNOW it is and once i'm in another relationship i want a little PDA. but because of my aforementioned beliefs I'd respect my new bf's opinion if his views on pda were like mine ANYWAY, is it weird that my opinion has changed. sorry for the rant. I wasn't done when i thought I was.
oh for clarification, i dunno how he felt about my kissing ability but I would say he was an f.
For anyone who doesn't understand, PDA means public display of affection.
oh for clarification, i dunno how he felt about my kissing ability but I would say he was an f.
For anyone who doesn't understand, PDA means public display of affection.