I asked this a week ago but didn't get any helpful answers.
My husband and I have been married for nearly 5 years now. We're very happy and everything is practically ideal except for one thing, I have a bigger sexual appetite then he does which I guess is odd since its supposed to be the other way around usually. Don't get me wrong he's great in bed still when we do the deed. When we were engaged and the first 3-4 years of our marriage we were having sex twice a day quite often. Now we're having sex 3-4 times a week which I know is normal. The thing is my libido hasn't diminished. I don't like initiating more then he does either. Is this just the regular decline a sex life after being married for a while? I haven't gained weight and am in excellent shape so if you're going to say something like I got fat don't bother answering.
What can I do to get his sex drive back to where it was before?
Any ideas on what I can do to get him excited all the time. I know the usual ideas of lingerie and roleplaying but any other ideas? What I'm really concerned about is that if it keeps on declining until we're having it on a monthly basis. I guess I should initiate more as well.
As for masturbating I feel uncomfortable doing it unless its a playful thing for my husband. I don't know why I feel weird about doing it by myself now. The other thing is that I sleep better after sex as well. I'm not one of those women who shoo away my man because of a headache. In fact there's nothing like a great O to cure a headache and relax before bed. Do you think its weird that my sex drive is higher then my husbands?
Btw we're both 28 and fit if that matters.
If you're a pervert or troll I don't want your answer you sicko.
Sorry for those of you who give thoughtful proper answers.
My husband and I have been married for nearly 5 years now. We're very happy and everything is practically ideal except for one thing, I have a bigger sexual appetite then he does which I guess is odd since its supposed to be the other way around usually. Don't get me wrong he's great in bed still when we do the deed. When we were engaged and the first 3-4 years of our marriage we were having sex twice a day quite often. Now we're having sex 3-4 times a week which I know is normal. The thing is my libido hasn't diminished. I don't like initiating more then he does either. Is this just the regular decline a sex life after being married for a while? I haven't gained weight and am in excellent shape so if you're going to say something like I got fat don't bother answering.
What can I do to get his sex drive back to where it was before?
Any ideas on what I can do to get him excited all the time. I know the usual ideas of lingerie and roleplaying but any other ideas? What I'm really concerned about is that if it keeps on declining until we're having it on a monthly basis. I guess I should initiate more as well.
As for masturbating I feel uncomfortable doing it unless its a playful thing for my husband. I don't know why I feel weird about doing it by myself now. The other thing is that I sleep better after sex as well. I'm not one of those women who shoo away my man because of a headache. In fact there's nothing like a great O to cure a headache and relax before bed. Do you think its weird that my sex drive is higher then my husbands?
Btw we're both 28 and fit if that matters.
If you're a pervert or troll I don't want your answer you sicko.
Sorry for those of you who give thoughtful proper answers.