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<blockquote data-quote="GoodMorningDarling" data-source="post: 1536112" data-attributes="member: 604431">me and has a Go at me? Like, he&#039;ll make snide comments and take the mickey out of me, i have 0 self esteem anyway and he Just makes it worse. Once during a row he told me to &#039;Piss off back to my dads house&#039; which really hurt as my father had cut off contact with me.Im grateful cos he looks after mum and i try to keep the peace but hes always having a go at me, i try to tidy up after myself and i stay out his way. He buys me the same stuff as his kids and materialistically he&#039;s fine but i&#039;d rather him be okay with me, emotionally. Sometimes we get on okay and we chat and that but like, when we go out as a family he&#039;ll take the piss out of me and not his own kids (They re 18 and 22) and treats them like they&#039;re babies.His kids talk to him like crap, they never do anything for themselves and demand to be picked up and dropped off wherever they are. I always have tried to be independent and would only call him or my mum to pick me up if i hadn&#039;t tried to get home on my own in the fist place i.e. train or the bus. I only answer back when we row and most of the time i don&#039;t say anything to him at all.I try to talk to mum about this and she shakes it off, but i hate it because i feel excluded and when i feel like crap i still manage to haul myself out with those lot and him making comments or generally annoying me doesn&#039;t make me feel any better. I don&#039;t know what to do.I meant to add that I&#039;m 16</blockquote>

[QUOTE="GoodMorningDarling, post: 1536112, member: 604431"] me and has a Go at me? Like, he'll make snide comments and take the mickey out of me, i have 0 self esteem anyway and he Just makes it worse. Once during a row he told me to 'Piss off back to my dads house' which really hurt as my father had cut off contact with me. Im grateful cos he looks after mum and i try to keep the peace but hes always having a go at me, i try to tidy up after myself and i stay out his way. He buys me the same stuff as his kids and materialistically he's fine but i'd rather him be okay with me, emotionally. Sometimes we get on okay and we chat and that but like, when we go out as a family he'll take the piss out of me and not his own kids (They re 18 and 22) and treats them like they're babies. His kids talk to him like crap, they never do anything for themselves and demand to be picked up and dropped off wherever they are. I always have tried to be independent and would only call him or my mum to pick me up if i hadn't tried to get home on my own in the fist place i.e. train or the bus. I only answer back when we row and most of the time i don't say anything to him at all. I try to talk to mum about this and she shakes it off, but i hate it because i feel excluded and when i feel like crap i still manage to haul myself out with those lot and him making comments or generally annoying me doesn't make me feel any better. I don't know what to do. I meant to add that I'm 16 [/QUOTE]

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