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<blockquote data-quote="bookitty" data-source="post: 2441026" data-attributes="member: 837198"><p>First of all I totally agree with everyone else who states the fact that she is a SAHM yet has her 3 year old in day care. That&#039;s bogus! I am a SAHM too, with a 3 year old and a 10 month old, and it is exhausting to a point. When my baby was a newborn that was rough, but now the two play together so much it gives me more time to do other tasks. Maybe if the 3 year old was around the 1 year old could have a playmate and wouldn&#039;t be so hard. A routine also helps. But you obviously do more than your fair share with helping her. It sounds to me like she is just resentful of you having a life and a career outside of the house. The next time she starts gripping say, &quot;If you could change anything what would it be?&quot; and take her response and go from there. My husband, like you, helps out above and beyond, and though I&#039;ve had my selfish moments too, I always ask him how his day was. ALWAYS! I hope you get this issue resolved soon. Having two young children is draining enough, but having a wife who does nothing but complain has to be extra taxing on your nerves! Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="bookitty, post: 2441026, member: 837198"] First of all I totally agree with everyone else who states the fact that she is a SAHM yet has her 3 year old in day care. That's bogus! I am a SAHM too, with a 3 year old and a 10 month old, and it is exhausting to a point. When my baby was a newborn that was rough, but now the two play together so much it gives me more time to do other tasks. Maybe if the 3 year old was around the 1 year old could have a playmate and wouldn't be so hard. A routine also helps. But you obviously do more than your fair share with helping her. It sounds to me like she is just resentful of you having a life and a career outside of the house. The next time she starts gripping say, "If you could change anything what would it be?" and take her response and go from there. My husband, like you, helps out above and beyond, and though I've had my selfish moments too, I always ask him how his day was. ALWAYS! I hope you get this issue resolved soon. Having two young children is draining enough, but having a wife who does nothing but complain has to be extra taxing on your nerves! Good luck. [/QUOTE]

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