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<blockquote data-quote="missthang1" data-source="post: 2063137" data-attributes="member: 585459">OK.. Here is the argument. &nbsp;some back ground:My b/f has a friend that is a girl that is Lesbian.. But has two kids because she was married to a man at one time. I have Never met her but he says they are friends. She doesn&#039;t call and text out of ordinary, She text him out of the blue a couple months ago and now again. OK..Here is the issue:She text a couple months back and was like whats up Babe? I ask him what is that all about and he then tells me her background. I said regardless of her being a lesbian she does not need to call you Babe, Baby, Bay. Nothing. To me those are personal names that you call someone. I call him Babe or baby. So, I feel it is disrespectful for another women to call him that regardless if she is gay or not. He said that is how she is and she calls everyone babe. So, I text her back and was like hey whats up you know I am married.. she was like ok.. and we haven&#039;t heard from her in months. He never told her to stop calling him Babe nothing. I honestly feel it is disrespectful to me and he does not see this. So she txt him out of the blue tonight like &quot;by bay bay&quot; so I seen it, showed him and text her back a &quot;?&quot; she replied Whats up Babe? Automatically I get pissed. So we get into an argument because he said we have been though this and it is not a big deal because she said it all of the time. But I have never met her so I dont know how he is. He has also told me in the past he wont bring her around me because she would hit on me and it would piss him off. I am almost 7 months preg and very emotion and start arguments but I feel this is one that is in my favor. Am I over reacting? Please be detailed in your response so we both can read and show everyone&#039;s opinion..</blockquote>

[QUOTE="missthang1, post: 2063137, member: 585459"] OK.. Here is the argument. some back ground: My b/f has a friend that is a girl that is Lesbian.. But has two kids because she was married to a man at one time. I have Never met her but he says they are friends. She doesn't call and text out of ordinary, She text him out of the blue a couple months ago and now again. OK.. Here is the issue: She text a couple months back and was like whats up Babe? I ask him what is that all about and he then tells me her background. I said regardless of her being a lesbian she does not need to call you Babe, Baby, Bay. Nothing. To me those are personal names that you call someone. I call him Babe or baby. So, I feel it is disrespectful for another women to call him that regardless if she is gay or not. He said that is how she is and she calls everyone babe. So, I text her back and was like hey whats up you know I am married.. she was like ok.. and we haven't heard from her in months. He never told her to stop calling him Babe nothing. I honestly feel it is disrespectful to me and he does not see this. So she txt him out of the blue tonight like "by bay bay" so I seen it, showed him and text her back a "?" she replied Whats up Babe? Automatically I get pissed. So we get into an argument because he said we have been though this and it is not a big deal because she said it all of the time. But I have never met her so I dont know how he is. He has also told me in the past he wont bring her around me because she would hit on me and it would piss him off. I am almost 7 months preg and very emotion and start arguments but I feel this is one that is in my favor. Am I over reacting? Please be detailed in your response so we both can read and show everyone's opinion.. [/QUOTE]

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