Mechanicarts
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- Jul 25, 2008
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I'm in a long distance relationship (although we meet once in a while) with a very cute and smart guy. I'm 19yo and he is 17yo. We have been together for one month but we have known each other since February. I'm deeply in love with him because he makes me happy when we talk together, and he claims the same. There is one major problem.
He is an obsessed otaku (manga and anime fan, also studies japanese). I HATE mangas and animes. I try to show some interest, watch some anime episodes he suggests and lots of stuff, but I can't. I just go with the flow. One time he was telling me to see a 40-minute anime episode, but I didn't want to do so. I told him and he said he didn't understand why not. I was then outraged and told him "You won't turn me into an anime fan so stop trying". He became very sad and stopped talking to me for the day.
The next day I spoke to him again and apologized for my weird reaction. He said he didn't know what to do since he doesn't know what else to share with me (anime is his ONLY interest) and he fears he will disappoint me.
Since it's my first relationship (his too) I don't want it to end from such a matter, such as a lack of common interests.
However he keeps sending me links to anime episodes he wants to discuss with me, talks to me about anime characters and asks me to play visual novels (anime style).
I really can't take it anymore. I DON'T LIKE ANIME and he knows it YET HE STILL SENDS ME ANIME. Besides that there is no other problem. What should I do?
He is an obsessed otaku (manga and anime fan, also studies japanese). I HATE mangas and animes. I try to show some interest, watch some anime episodes he suggests and lots of stuff, but I can't. I just go with the flow. One time he was telling me to see a 40-minute anime episode, but I didn't want to do so. I told him and he said he didn't understand why not. I was then outraged and told him "You won't turn me into an anime fan so stop trying". He became very sad and stopped talking to me for the day.
The next day I spoke to him again and apologized for my weird reaction. He said he didn't know what to do since he doesn't know what else to share with me (anime is his ONLY interest) and he fears he will disappoint me.
Since it's my first relationship (his too) I don't want it to end from such a matter, such as a lack of common interests.
However he keeps sending me links to anime episodes he wants to discuss with me, talks to me about anime characters and asks me to play visual novels (anime style).
I really can't take it anymore. I DON'T LIKE ANIME and he knows it YET HE STILL SENDS ME ANIME. Besides that there is no other problem. What should I do?