I asked a question a couple days ago about my mother in law not being careful with my severe nut allergies. She was angry that we would not go eat dinner at her house, but we would still be there to play cards. She doesn't try, and she haas almost killed me 8 times.We agreed that we would come after they ate...by 4:30
When we got there they hadn't eaten yet because she wanted to bitch me out for taking her son away from her. She literally backed me into a wall and yelled at me about it.She assured me that it would be totaly safe this time.
I agreed to stay through dinner but not eat. Unfortunately, as my suspicion confirmed, she in fact had made something that had nut byproduct and just from sitting there I got hives all over my body...I looked like I dove into Poison ivy.
We left aand she still is saying it's all my fault.
For my fiance's sake, I can't just cut off contact with her, but I've tried talking to her with no success. She just doesn't get it.Now what do I do? I can't just avoid her for the rest of my life, but it's getting to that point.
When we got there they hadn't eaten yet because she wanted to bitch me out for taking her son away from her. She literally backed me into a wall and yelled at me about it.She assured me that it would be totaly safe this time.
I agreed to stay through dinner but not eat. Unfortunately, as my suspicion confirmed, she in fact had made something that had nut byproduct and just from sitting there I got hives all over my body...I looked like I dove into Poison ivy.
We left aand she still is saying it's all my fault.
For my fiance's sake, I can't just cut off contact with her, but I've tried talking to her with no success. She just doesn't get it.Now what do I do? I can't just avoid her for the rest of my life, but it's getting to that point.