OK ... does he like me? Did I just blow it? Going Hiking(Yes I realize how

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corny I sound)? So there is this guy and he's reallynice I've never met anyone quite like him but he's shy although he doesn't admit it, what can I say I'm a sucker for bashful men. But, he's 2 years younger than me I feel like a cougar (yes I've heard all the jokes so spare me). He's really kind and incredibly laid back but not lazy at all though. So we've know eachother for a couple of weeks he says he finds me entertaining, and as we talk we will eventually stop because we will literally get lost in each other's eyes I being stupid would always break it. Whenever he would look at me I'd smile and he's smile then he would turn around but then a second later he'll look back at me, this happens like three times. So, since he wouldn't make a move I thought I would, and I asked him if he would like to go hiking with me saturday. Something casual and it would help us get to know each other better. He said he would get back to me on it, so he didn't say no, but I feel like an idiot for asking. I've never ever made the first move before and I can't stop thinking about him, he's not even that great looking but there's something just there, he's sombody I can trust. You know that feeling you get with certian people who you know will have your back, I know he's only human and he's not perfect but I just can't help believe he'll stay true. But, I think he might not feel the same way, and know I'm miserable because even if we don't become a couple I want us to atleast be friends but by asking him to go hiking I feel I made it akward.
 
I'm a kinda shy guy as well, so I sorta know what you're after. First of all, you can never really be sure if he likes you or not until he actually comes clean, but I don't think you blew it just yet. It might seem a little awkward to basically be asked out by a girl, but some people almost wish a girl would make the first move, especially if they don't think they have a chance with her. If all else fails and he doesn't want to go, you might be able to pull a last-hope fast one and ask him if he wants to bring some friends along (you can bring some too). That might help break the ice a little, plus it'll give both your friend groups a chance to meet and socialise a little, but no guarantees. Hope it all works out!!!
 
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