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<blockquote data-quote="Amy" data-source="post: 2513381" data-attributes="member: 211355"><p>Facebook has brought me to find people from my past, which I love, I have a bf, kids, house, and we&#039;re happy..but I&#039;m wondering if talking to old friends (guys) is going to cause problems? The very first guy I ever had a serious crush on told me the other day that he still had a crush on me (I used to love him so much 20 yrs ago but never did anything with him but hang out and kiss)! I&#039;d like to see him and have a friendship with him but wonder if his feelings would cause problems with my bf now.&nbsp; I&#039;ve thought of him often in those twenty years and missed him alot!! He&#039;s never been married but had a daughter which he&#039;s raised alone, he&#039;s super smart and sensitive and funny, a great person to make a wonderful friend.&nbsp; My bf now isn&#039;t the jealous type and says he doesn&#039;t care if I talk to guys but he also won&#039;t marry me cuz he thinks everyone who gets married divorces, I&#039;m 37, bf is 26 and my friend is 38. Though it&#039;s been twenty years since we&#039;ve hung out and really knew each other we have talked a few times within those years, he contacted me one time about four years ago when I was pregnant with my twins to the guys I&#039;m with now......need some advice should I encourage friendship or would it just be too hard?</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Amy, post: 2513381, member: 211355"] Facebook has brought me to find people from my past, which I love, I have a bf, kids, house, and we're happy..but I'm wondering if talking to old friends (guys) is going to cause problems? The very first guy I ever had a serious crush on told me the other day that he still had a crush on me (I used to love him so much 20 yrs ago but never did anything with him but hang out and kiss)! I'd like to see him and have a friendship with him but wonder if his feelings would cause problems with my bf now. I've thought of him often in those twenty years and missed him alot!! He's never been married but had a daughter which he's raised alone, he's super smart and sensitive and funny, a great person to make a wonderful friend. My bf now isn't the jealous type and says he doesn't care if I talk to guys but he also won't marry me cuz he thinks everyone who gets married divorces, I'm 37, bf is 26 and my friend is 38. Though it's been twenty years since we've hung out and really knew each other we have talked a few times within those years, he contacted me one time about four years ago when I was pregnant with my twins to the guys I'm with now......need some advice should I encourage friendship or would it just be too hard? [/QUOTE]

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