One of my cats HATES my boyfriend? What can I do to improve the situation?

Nini^^

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I have two lovely cats, a siamese and a calico. (Instead of using names, I'm going to use their colors it's less confusing.. )

my siamese is very friendly and loves my boyfriend. she sits all over him lays inbetween us and purrs when he even walks near her or starts talking to her.

my calico, on the other hand, likes to chill by me but if he comes near her or looks at her she'll hiss. usually she can tolerate him like she doesn't attack him or go out of her way to hiss at him if they're just sitting next to eachother, but she wont let him touch her or play with her.

if my siamese goes near my calico after playing with my boyfriend then my calico even hissese at her and swipes at her! they're best friends otherwise, and cuddle all the time.

my calico does let him feed her, and i've been trying to let him keep feeding her in an effort to maybe that she'd start to like him. she seems to completely forget that he fed her and hisses right when she's done eating, lol.

what can i do to make my boyfriend seem more positive to her? she isn't a very smart cat, and she doesn't play with toys much. she ignores everytime i try to play with her. sometimes she'll steal a hairband and play with that, though.
 
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