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<blockquote data-quote="david" data-source="post: 2653929" data-attributes="member: 207029">You sound like you&#039;ve been dealt a pretty rough hand from a pretty rough chick; does she still seem to love you despite all this? My brother had an Italian wife that was similar in some respects, along with the one kid, but their relationship ended up ending over it. Too many biased rules with someone who had no interest of changing. Maybe you could try counselling? It doesn&#039;t sound like you guys planned for kids (I may be wrong?) but at any rate, slipping you drugs doesn&#039;t seem cocher; I would have hit the roof about that for one thing. The jealousy thing needs to stop too - jealousy can be one of those ugly things that can eat your personality up entirely with the conspiracies and imagined scenarios and such...have you tried having your friends around for dinner on a few occasions, especially couples where the women can all hang out in one area and the guys in another? Maybe you could pre-arrange the women to drop a bit of a hint that she&#039;s overprotective of you and needs to let you have some space....At any rate, it sounds like a holiday could do you very good...if shes just come back from one and the kid isn&#039;t a hassle, shes got no real card to play aside from pettyness. Just mind that if it comes to an argument, she may be the &#039;over the top&#039; type that might not be there, or the kid for that matter, when you come back, so make sure this isnt too much of a surprise. Good luck at any rate</blockquote>

[QUOTE="david, post: 2653929, member: 207029"] You sound like you've been dealt a pretty rough hand from a pretty rough chick; does she still seem to love you despite all this? My brother had an Italian wife that was similar in some respects, along with the one kid, but their relationship ended up ending over it. Too many biased rules with someone who had no interest of changing. Maybe you could try counselling? It doesn't sound like you guys planned for kids (I may be wrong?) but at any rate, slipping you drugs doesn't seem cocher; I would have hit the roof about that for one thing. The jealousy thing needs to stop too - jealousy can be one of those ugly things that can eat your personality up entirely with the conspiracies and imagined scenarios and such...have you tried having your friends around for dinner on a few occasions, especially couples where the women can all hang out in one area and the guys in another? Maybe you could pre-arrange the women to drop a bit of a hint that she's overprotective of you and needs to let you have some space.... At any rate, it sounds like a holiday could do you very good...if shes just come back from one and the kid isn't a hassle, shes got no real card to play aside from pettyness. Just mind that if it comes to an argument, she may be the 'over the top' type that might not be there, or the kid for that matter, when you come back, so make sure this isnt too much of a surprise. Good luck at any rate [/QUOTE]

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