my bluetooth is all installed on my laptop and im trying to send a picture but it saying on my phone - seeking- for a while now, is it supposed take this long to send a file??
No it shouldnt take that long. You need to make sure that both devices Bluetooth are set to show and then try to pair them. Once you have paired them you can send pics via bluetooth.
Alternatively if you have a cable you may be able to plug it directly into your laptop/PC.