Reply to thread

Message

<blockquote data-quote="carmen" data-source="post: 2577410" data-attributes="member: 281942"><p>So, my fiance&#039; is a liittle weird about pda...it really depends on his mood and who were around but for example, last night we were in a limo with like 15 people and most of them couples and all the couples were cuddling or at least the man had his arm around the chick and me? I get nuthin&quot;....oh and then we get to our destination at a lounge and still..he&#039;s kinda in his own world and even walked ahead of me at one point. Yah, and I have no problems grabbing him and putting my arms around him..and I do...all the time, but usually I try it then I stop if there&#039;s no reciprocation, cuz then it just looks one-sided and I look silly. Later on in the evening, on the street he grabbed me and held me and said he&#039;s sorry if he was distant...he had a lot on his mind cuz I guess our friends were causing trouble....which I didn&#039;t even pay any mind to. So yah, he&#039;s not like this at home at all...or around family. He&#039;s usually always affectionate and stuff...but I get sad when we go out with friends and he doesn&#039;t do that anymore. We had pre-marital counseling and the subject of &quot;are u happy with your displays of affection towards ur future wife&quot; he said no...that he often holds back and it bothers him and he doesn&#039;t know why. The counselor didn&#039;t delve in much, she just told us to talk about what we each of us needs to feel loved. I&#039;m gonna talk to him today...any advice on how to approach the subject in a non- confrontational way?</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="carmen, post: 2577410, member: 281942"] So, my fiance' is a liittle weird about pda...it really depends on his mood and who were around but for example, last night we were in a limo with like 15 people and most of them couples and all the couples were cuddling or at least the man had his arm around the chick and me? I get nuthin"....oh and then we get to our destination at a lounge and still..he's kinda in his own world and even walked ahead of me at one point. Yah, and I have no problems grabbing him and putting my arms around him..and I do...all the time, but usually I try it then I stop if there's no reciprocation, cuz then it just looks one-sided and I look silly. Later on in the evening, on the street he grabbed me and held me and said he's sorry if he was distant...he had a lot on his mind cuz I guess our friends were causing trouble....which I didn't even pay any mind to. So yah, he's not like this at home at all...or around family. He's usually always affectionate and stuff...but I get sad when we go out with friends and he doesn't do that anymore. We had pre-marital counseling and the subject of "are u happy with your displays of affection towards ur future wife" he said no...that he often holds back and it bothers him and he doesn't know why. The counselor didn't delve in much, she just told us to talk about what we each of us needs to feel loved. I'm gonna talk to him today...any advice on how to approach the subject in a non- confrontational way? [/QUOTE]

Name

Verification

Loading…