my name is alex. I'm 16 years old, and i'm not a bad kid. i don't smoke, drink, do drugs anything like that. i'm very outgoing, and i try to be friendly towards everyone and make everyone feel like they can talk to me about anything. i try my very hardest to learn with every mistake i make, and be the best person i can. Usually i'm the one giving other people advice, but when your the advice giver, who do you go to? I have had this problem for the longest time. I feel like the more i talk to a girl, the more they stop liking me. they only want me as a friend cause i'm so cool or funny. i feel like i'm not really a bad ass cause i'm to sensative about herting other people's feeling, and understanding others, but i'm not really a goody goody cause i'm so mischevious and naughty.i feel like girls only go for bad asses and completely butt hole guys. i feel like being a good person isn't enough, and every girl wants a guy that's caring and considerate, but they always date the butt holes.
i also feel like every girl says they want somebody who's caring and sweet, but really they want someone whole keep things interesting, and act like a jerk. if you actually act nice and sweet, girls get bored fast, cause you always want what you can't have, but when you've been given it, you get bored. i think this is how most girls act and i think maybe when i try to get along with a girl, i'm being to "girly." the only thing is, I would like a girl that could get along with me and do stuff i wanted to do sometimes, but i feel like if i do that to a girl, then she doesn't see me as awesome, she sees me as a friend. do girls really just want a boy that acts completely like a boy, like perving at other girls, and trying to fight, and making rude jokes and stuff? do they realy just want a manly man to make them feel more womenly? this seems a little strange to me, cause i always see emos getting all the girls with there tight pants and straightened hair.
I'm biracial, and i live in south carolina, and people tell me they can't tell i'm black, so i figure that wouldn't matter since alot of girls won't date black guys here (not that i would date any of them) but i also don't feel ugly, cause so many girls tell me i'm cute and good looking, but then i can't find a girl that i like. i'm not stuck up either, and i'll date someone more for personality then for looks and when a girl comes along that does show interest, she seems to stop liking me after like 2 days...even when we don't even talk! i don't know what to do. anybody?
i also feel like every girl says they want somebody who's caring and sweet, but really they want someone whole keep things interesting, and act like a jerk. if you actually act nice and sweet, girls get bored fast, cause you always want what you can't have, but when you've been given it, you get bored. i think this is how most girls act and i think maybe when i try to get along with a girl, i'm being to "girly." the only thing is, I would like a girl that could get along with me and do stuff i wanted to do sometimes, but i feel like if i do that to a girl, then she doesn't see me as awesome, she sees me as a friend. do girls really just want a boy that acts completely like a boy, like perving at other girls, and trying to fight, and making rude jokes and stuff? do they realy just want a manly man to make them feel more womenly? this seems a little strange to me, cause i always see emos getting all the girls with there tight pants and straightened hair.
I'm biracial, and i live in south carolina, and people tell me they can't tell i'm black, so i figure that wouldn't matter since alot of girls won't date black guys here (not that i would date any of them) but i also don't feel ugly, cause so many girls tell me i'm cute and good looking, but then i can't find a girl that i like. i'm not stuck up either, and i'll date someone more for personality then for looks and when a girl comes along that does show interest, she seems to stop liking me after like 2 days...even when we don't even talk! i don't know what to do. anybody?