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<blockquote data-quote="My_mia" data-source="post: 1551090" data-attributes="member: 608843"><p>recently got back together with a old flame ofter 1.5 years and he is coming up with every excuse under the sun as to why it won&#039;t work out with us.&nbsp; These excuses are coming up after he chased me for the entire 1.5 years by calling me and texting me non-stop, asking me out. It hurst because when I finally get back with him, he&#039;s coming up with excuses.&nbsp; So now I&#039;m thinking he doesn&#039;t find me attractive anymore.&nbsp; Maybe he doesn&#039;t like my haircut, maybe I have aged in the face since he&#039;s seen me last,maybe he noticed I&quot;m 10 pounds heavier, etc.&nbsp; The thing about it is, he is no bauty king himself. He has stuff about him that I have overlooked because I loved him, and actually, it wouldn&#039;t matter to me if he was hit by a car and ended up having a deformed face....my love for him wouldn&#039;t have changed a bit.&nbsp; So now I&#039;m a little hurt, feeling like I&#039;m ugly. What can I do to make me realize that it&#039;s his loss??&nbsp; he never said that he found me unattractive or less attractive than I was 1.5 years ago, he&#039;s just making every excuse to not see me again, and the last time I did see him, he didn&#039;t kiss me because &quot;he had a cold&quot;.&nbsp; What else am I supposed to think?</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="My_mia, post: 1551090, member: 608843"] recently got back together with a old flame ofter 1.5 years and he is coming up with every excuse under the sun as to why it won't work out with us. These excuses are coming up after he chased me for the entire 1.5 years by calling me and texting me non-stop, asking me out. It hurst because when I finally get back with him, he's coming up with excuses. So now I'm thinking he doesn't find me attractive anymore. Maybe he doesn't like my haircut, maybe I have aged in the face since he's seen me last,maybe he noticed I"m 10 pounds heavier, etc. The thing about it is, he is no bauty king himself. He has stuff about him that I have overlooked because I loved him, and actually, it wouldn't matter to me if he was hit by a car and ended up having a deformed face....my love for him wouldn't have changed a bit. So now I'm a little hurt, feeling like I'm ugly. What can I do to make me realize that it's his loss?? he never said that he found me unattractive or less attractive than I was 1.5 years ago, he's just making every excuse to not see me again, and the last time I did see him, he didn't kiss me because "he had a cold". What else am I supposed to think? [/QUOTE]

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