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<blockquote data-quote="Jess4rsake" data-source="post: 2464736" data-attributes="member: 650367"><p>Depending on what your boyfriend is against,&nbsp; you need to consider if what he is against are your own personal intrinsic values and life goals.&nbsp; Primarily, you need to start building some real social friendships so that you will provide yourself with a real opportunity to meet other people who may have much more to offer you socially as the person you really are and whom you will not have to play any games with.&nbsp; At that point, your boyfriend will realize that he will not only have to &quot;behave&quot; but he will actually have to contribute something to your relationship in addition to sex 4 times a day.&nbsp; Sex alone will never hold a relationship between two people together.&nbsp; You could try to interest him in some social activities outside of the bedroom by discussing some of the things he may be interested in.&nbsp; Find out who his friends are and who he really is when he is around his family and the people who matter to him who are not forced to play games with him to have his attention and friendship.&nbsp; If he does not step up and start socially contributing to your relationship, then you can be sure that he is only using you to gratify his sexual&nbsp; needs.&nbsp; At that point, you must stop playing his games and start sharing goals and values with him in the outside world unless all you ever want to be to him is a booty call.&nbsp; Best wishes.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Jess4rsake, post: 2464736, member: 650367"] Depending on what your boyfriend is against, you need to consider if what he is against are your own personal intrinsic values and life goals. Primarily, you need to start building some real social friendships so that you will provide yourself with a real opportunity to meet other people who may have much more to offer you socially as the person you really are and whom you will not have to play any games with. At that point, your boyfriend will realize that he will not only have to "behave" but he will actually have to contribute something to your relationship in addition to sex 4 times a day. Sex alone will never hold a relationship between two people together. You could try to interest him in some social activities outside of the bedroom by discussing some of the things he may be interested in. Find out who his friends are and who he really is when he is around his family and the people who matter to him who are not forced to play games with him to have his attention and friendship. If he does not step up and start socially contributing to your relationship, then you can be sure that he is only using you to gratify his sexual needs. At that point, you must stop playing his games and start sharing goals and values with him in the outside world unless all you ever want to be to him is a booty call. Best wishes. [/QUOTE]

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