Please no jokes: I'm beginning to become very cold towards certain men?

chickadee0099

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I've had many experiences now with certain men assuming because they find me attractive, I will find their sexually perverse comments attractive as well.

It comes to the point where I am literally upset about why they treat me like this, yet everyone else knows that I exude professionalism, respect, class, and intellect. It is definitely not my behavior nor what I wear.

Instead of getting angry now and since they come up to me, I simply brush off the sexually perverse comments and acts and let them help do my work, etc...and once they've done enough, I leave them dry and pretend as if I never knew them.

I do it because I want them to feel the anger that I feel when they treat me like this. It works too, because I notice it busts their egos.

I don't do this to all men, not even most, just the overly presumptuous, TRIFLIN', backwards men who are generally married, etc...

Is there a better way to deal? I used to be nice and tell them to leave me alone, but they would attempt to pursue, then get angry, ugh...
Where is anything in my writing implying sexual intercourse?

Reread...there is indeed a question.
 

jaysunproxie

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heh ya gotta keep in mind that there are those you want around and those ya don't, how you treat them is something you need to square with not them (remember coming on to someone is a win or lose scenario) if you're trying to throw these guys off the trail as i see it this is a good a way as any, if their egos can't take it they shouldn't be playing that kinda game in the first place
 

forusall1

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i think alot of boys think no means yes.... really, they have been taught that you are inferior and can be disrespected.... it is only the boys that don't get the hint and keep persueing that are disrespectful and sometimes you have to do what you have to do.... i see nothing wrong with how you are treating the situation... it works... that is what matters...
 
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