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<blockquote data-quote="chickadee0099" data-source="post: 1987214" data-attributes="member: 414506">I&#039;ve had many experiences now with certain men assuming because they find me attractive, I will find their sexually perverse comments attractive as well.It comes to the point where I am literally upset about why they treat me like this, yet everyone else knows that I exude professionalism, respect, class, and intellect. It is definitely not my behavior nor what I wear.Instead of getting angry now and since they come up to me, I simply brush off the sexually perverse comments and acts and let them help do my work, etc...and once they&#039;ve done enough, I leave them dry and pretend as if I never knew them.I do it because I want them to feel the anger that I feel when they treat me like this. It works too, because I notice it busts their egos.I don&#039;t do this to all men, not even most, just the overly presumptuous, TRIFLIN&#039;, backwards men who are generally married, etc...Is there a better way to deal? I used to be nice and tell them to leave me alone, but they would attempt to pursue, then get angry, ugh...Where is anything in my writing implying sexual intercourse?Reread...there is indeed a question.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="chickadee0099, post: 1987214, member: 414506"] I've had many experiences now with certain men assuming because they find me attractive, I will find their sexually perverse comments attractive as well. It comes to the point where I am literally upset about why they treat me like this, yet everyone else knows that I exude professionalism, respect, class, and intellect. It is definitely not my behavior nor what I wear. Instead of getting angry now and since they come up to me, I simply brush off the sexually perverse comments and acts and let them help do my work, etc...and once they've done enough, I leave them dry and pretend as if I never knew them. I do it because I want them to feel the anger that I feel when they treat me like this. It works too, because I notice it busts their egos. I don't do this to all men, not even most, just the overly presumptuous, TRIFLIN', backwards men who are generally married, etc... Is there a better way to deal? I used to be nice and tell them to leave me alone, but they would attempt to pursue, then get angry, ugh... Where is anything in my writing implying sexual intercourse? Reread...there is indeed a question. [/QUOTE]

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