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<blockquote data-quote="sunshine29" data-source="post: 1947429" data-attributes="member: 713201">people interested in you? My b.f. of three years and I broke up over a year ago. For this past year, I have had to be entirely independent and go out and meet new people. And I&#039;ve changed a lot about myself.. I go tanning, dyed my hair, go to the gym all the time, eat soo healthy and I lost 25 pounds. So people think I look way better than I did...But it&#039;s still not enough.I&#039;ve met guys at new jobs or hangout with guys I&#039;ve kinda known but not really... and although I have absolutely NO self esteem, it gives me some comfort in the fact that when we first hangout they always say how gorgeous and amazing I am (don&#039;t worry; I realize that I am not).It makes me so depressed though because I give each one of these guys my all; I am so nice and funny like I always am, I put up with their s**t.. like when they say they&#039;re going to hangout with another girl or like their ex girlfriend. I don&#039;t call or text them usually without them doing it to me first. I STAY EXACTLY THE SAME. But it always, alwyas happens, that eventually they want nothing to do with me and usually find someone better to hangout with.I don&#039;t know what to do.I can&#039;t hear another &quot;they&#039;re just being boys..&quot; I can&#039;t take it. Obviously something is wrong. Please help.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="sunshine29, post: 1947429, member: 713201"] people interested in you? My b.f. of three years and I broke up over a year ago. For this past year, I have had to be entirely independent and go out and meet new people. And I've changed a lot about myself.. I go tanning, dyed my hair, go to the gym all the time, eat soo healthy and I lost 25 pounds. So people think I look way better than I did. ..But it's still not enough. I've met guys at new jobs or hangout with guys I've kinda known but not really... and although I have absolutely NO self esteem, it gives me some comfort in the fact that when we first hangout they always say how gorgeous and amazing I am (don't worry; I realize that I am not). It makes me so depressed though because I give each one of these guys my all; I am so nice and funny like I always am, I put up with their s**t.. like when they say they're going to hangout with another girl or like their ex girlfriend. I don't call or text them usually without them doing it to me first. I STAY EXACTLY THE SAME. But it always, alwyas happens, that eventually they want nothing to do with me and usually find someone better to hangout with. I don't know what to do.I can't hear another "they're just being boys.." I can't take it. Obviously something is wrong. Please help. [/QUOTE]

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