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<blockquote data-quote="Pineapple" data-source="post: 2577670" data-attributes="member: 141302">I am a 21 yr old male . Right since my childhood , I&#039;ve been different from the rest of the boys in my social life &amp; playing domain. I never took part in sports or other activities which are typically associated with boys and which instill in boys a sense of confidence and morale , which in my experience is very necessary for a boy&#039;s transformation to a &quot;man&quot; . I am really depressed the way things are now and its a very unhealthy sign of future . I was talking to my friend yesterday on phone &amp; he always teases me , but I never mind becoz I know its for my own good , even if he reprimands me . He said :&quot;So how&#039;s your GF doing ?&quot;Me : &quot;She&#039;s fine . He : &quot;Don&#039;t lie ! You don&#039;t have a GF . I know you well &quot;Me : &quot;Why can&#039;t I have a GF ? I am a boy , right . So I would have one GF , right ?&quot;He said in a low voice :&quot;You&#039;re not a boy .&quot; In the place I stay people are considered boys / girls until they marry ! And then he said &quot;I understand your feelings ( towards men ) . Every woman have feelings .&quot;I got surprised and I said &quot;Every .. what !!&quot; .( Are you calling me a woman ?!)So , he said he was just kidding and in the end he said &quot;Be a MAN , be a man &quot;. I got the point of what he said . All he was trying to say was don&#039;t be such a sissy freak ! Be a man and achieve something in life ..But , my problem is : I have a feminine sounding voice , which is really bothering me considering the fact that I am 21 yr old and such things shouldn&#039;t be issue at this age !ALSO , I sometimes do feel attracted to men ( as my friend on call suspected ! ) , But I only see it as a side-effect of me being not a &quot;man&quot; .. ALSO , please tell me , should I go out and learn and play cricket , since I never tried that experience and fun in childhood .Things are bad <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f641.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":(" title="Frown&nbsp; &nbsp; :("&nbsp; data-smilie="3"data-shortname=":(" /> but they may become worse if I don&#039;t do something about it . Will my abused childhood continue to impact my future ? thanks for answering !</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Pineapple, post: 2577670, member: 141302"] I am a 21 yr old male . Right since my childhood , I've been different from the rest of the boys in my social life & playing domain. I never took part in sports or other activities which are typically associated with boys and which instill in boys a sense of confidence and morale , which in my experience is very necessary for a boy's transformation to a "man" . I am really depressed the way things are now and its a very unhealthy sign of future . I was talking to my friend yesterday on phone & he always teases me , but I never mind becoz I know its for my own good , even if he reprimands me . He said :"So how's your GF doing ?" Me : "She's fine . He : "Don't lie ! You don't have a GF . I know you well " Me : "Why can't I have a GF ? I am a boy , right . So I would have one GF , right ?" He said in a low voice :"You're not a boy ." In the place I stay people are considered boys / girls until they marry ! And then he said "I understand your feelings ( towards men ) . Every woman have feelings ." I got surprised and I said "Every .. what !!" .( Are you calling me a woman ?!) So , he said he was just kidding and in the end he said "Be a MAN , be a man ". I got the point of what he said . All he was trying to say was don't be such a sissy freak ! Be a man and achieve something in life .. But , my problem is : I have a feminine sounding voice , which is really bothering me considering the fact that I am 21 yr old and such things shouldn't be issue at this age ! ALSO , I sometimes do feel attracted to men ( as my friend on call suspected ! ) , But I only see it as a side-effect of me being not a "man" .. ALSO , please tell me , should I go out and learn and play cricket , since I never tried that experience and fun in childhood . Things are bad :( but they may become worse if I don't do something about it . Will my abused childhood continue to impact my future ? thanks for answering ! [/QUOTE]

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