Ramadan: why these girls complaining about me!?

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so i try to lower my gaze. . .alhamdulillah im mastering it. The question is all girls i know are dressing inappropriate, so everytime i pass i dont greet them as usual, coz i dont see them clearly and they now complaining how i dont greet them? ?
Should i really look at a girls wearing a mini? !
 
I suggest you tell them that you're fasting so you're not allowed to look at them, because it will break your fast, and also, tell them that if they want you to look at them and speak to them, they wear appropriate clothing,
 
Try to lower your gaze and only greet and go on your way if necessary. It is the right thing to do Insha'Allah.
 
It's good you're lowering your gaze. When you greet a girl, don't look at her, if there is an object behind her, look at that.
 
Um just dont stare at their legs, dude. Look at their face. Look at them as a person. If they try to get up on you, that's their problem. Then you try to handle it by being a shareef Muslim. But other than that, you need to be respectable. Have good intentions. Don't just ignore them. That shows shallowness.
 
*sigh* i know wat you mean.

my cuz is facing the same problem.
well all i can say is good on you for lowering your gaze. ^^

when you greet them just be normal as in your usual self but avoid looking at them simple.
they need to realise whats going on and how you feel uncomfortable.


hope i've been of help ^^
 
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