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<blockquote data-quote="Lucien1" data-source="post: 2032266" data-attributes="member: 585310">Info:16 years old,white male, bisexual,I understand where you are coming from because I am a bisexual guy in high school (Not gay but we share some similarities). There are very few people in school who know about my bisexuality because:1.) I feel that I don&#039;t have to tell them I&#039;m bisexual, unless they are important to me.2.) I go to a really elite private school. You know how it goes it private schools----&gt; every prep school in the city will know about it because kids who go to different prep schools just know each other( and I don&#039;t want everyone to know). Plus most of us are conservative protestants.I get the part where you feel afraid because that happened to me once. I liked a guy, and he was really friendly to me, I thought he was gay/bisexual then made the mistake of telling him that I like him...and he said he is not gay/bisexual. He remained&nbsp; very nice to me though...he said &quot;I&#039;m not grossed out about it, no problem.&quot; Same situation:- I think I am fairly attractive, I could probably get a girl or a guy if I wanted to. It&#039;s just the confidence that is lacking from me....- I don&#039;t like feminine gay guys.....- I get hit on by girls - I know no one gay in our school- I like masculine guys, and not shorter than my height which is 5&#039;11- I am pretty masculine and attractive- This lab partner of mine expresses interest but he&#039;s very feminine.How I am different:- I get hit on by OLDER OLDER OLD OLD gay guys every time.- I&#039;m a junior.But here&#039;s what I can give to you as an advice:1.) Do not date a girl if you are sure you are ONLY gay. It&#039;s not very healthy for you because in a way you are forcing yourself to act a certain way. GO GET A GUY! It&#039;s what you need. I only date girls because I am attracted just as well(AKA BISEXUALITY).2.) Why limit yourself to guys in your school? It&#039;s wide open! You can see many gay guys your age anywhere.3.) Make friends with guys who you find cute. Start with friendship. Don&#039;t talk to a guy just because you want to get physical with him. Get to know him first.Warning on 3: Don&#039;t be too friendly. You will hit a point where the other person will think that you are just a friendly straight guy. You know what I mean? Drop some hints once in a while.4.) I guess when you have spotted a guy and you are certain that he is gay/bisexual, tell him something along the lines of:&nbsp;- &quot;Do you want to go and see this (insert sport event or concert of a band you both like) this (Insert time and date)?&quot;-&nbsp; &quot;Hey we could go to the (insert name of the fitness center here) and workout together!&quot;( WARNING: THIS MIGHT END UP IN A REALLY STEAMY ENCOUNTER IN THE STEAM ROOM, LOL!!!Lastly: Don&#039;t ask to go to a movie/mall/restaurant together because1.) What if he is straight? LOL2.) Even a gay/bi guy can be daunted by the idea of going out with another guy especially when he is closeted.Save the movie/mall/restaurant/sleepovers/camping-together&nbsp; for later.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Lucien1, post: 2032266, member: 585310"] Info: 16 years old, white male, bisexual, I understand where you are coming from because I am a bisexual guy in high school (Not gay but we share some similarities). There are very few people in school who know about my bisexuality because: 1.) I feel that I don't have to tell them I'm bisexual, unless they are important to me. 2.) I go to a really elite private school. You know how it goes it private schools----> every prep school in the city will know about it because kids who go to different prep schools just know each other( and I don't want everyone to know). Plus most of us are conservative protestants. I get the part where you feel afraid because that happened to me once. I liked a guy, and he was really friendly to me, I thought he was gay/bisexual then made the mistake of telling him that I like him...and he said he is not gay/bisexual. He remained very nice to me though...he said "I'm not grossed out about it, no problem." Same situation: - I think I am fairly attractive, I could probably get a girl or a guy if I wanted to. It's just the confidence that is lacking from me.... - I don't like feminine gay guys..... - I get hit on by girls - I know no one gay in our school - I like masculine guys, and not shorter than my height which is 5'11 - I am pretty masculine and attractive - This lab partner of mine expresses interest but he's very feminine. How I am different: - I get hit on by OLDER OLDER OLD OLD gay guys every time. - I'm a junior. But here's what I can give to you as an advice: 1.) Do not date a girl if you are sure you are ONLY gay. It's not very healthy for you because in a way you are forcing yourself to act a certain way. GO GET A GUY! It's what you need. I only date girls because I am attracted just as well(AKA BISEXUALITY). 2.) Why limit yourself to guys in your school? It's wide open! You can see many gay guys your age anywhere. 3.) Make friends with guys who you find cute. Start with friendship. Don't talk to a guy just because you want to get physical with him. Get to know him first. Warning on 3: Don't be too friendly. You will hit a point where the other person will think that you are just a friendly straight guy. You know what I mean? Drop some hints once in a while. 4.) I guess when you have spotted a guy and you are certain that he is gay/bisexual, tell him something along the lines of: - "Do you want to go and see this (insert sport event or concert of a band you both like) this (Insert time and date)?" - "Hey we could go to the (insert name of the fitness center here) and workout together!"( WARNING: THIS MIGHT END UP IN A REALLY STEAMY ENCOUNTER IN THE STEAM ROOM, LOL!!! Lastly: Don't ask to go to a movie/mall/restaurant together because 1.) What if he is straight? LOL 2.) Even a gay/bi guy can be daunted by the idea of going out with another guy especially when he is closeted. Save the movie/mall/restaurant/sleepovers/camping-together for later. [/QUOTE]

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