Ranting: I am so confused..?

[Brittany]

(Just to letcha know beforehand, the reason this is is LGBT is because im a lesbian and you guys give the best help on Yahoo Answers.)

Okay so m older sister who is 22 has been with her boyfriend for almost 4 years now and they have a 2 month old baby girl, they seem like the perfect couple. They argue just like every couple but i never thought anything about it. But, yesterday i went to her house, he was at work and she broke down and told me that shes not happy and shes not in love with him anymore. I was so...caught off guard..so confused. I thought they were happy. I asked her why she felt this way and she tells me that she feels stuck, he was her first real boyfriend and being with him is all she knows. She doesnt have a job and all she does is sit at home with the baby all day until he gets home so i think the main problem is that she feels left out.. but he does everything for her, he loves her with all his heart and he would take a bullet for her without hesitation. I just dont see how people can just stop loving each other like that..I mean, I asked her if she could see herself not being with him or being with someone else and she said yes. I just cant believe it..Ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years and i could NEVER ever see myself being without her..Maybe were just really in love and they arent..

Sorry this is long, i just had to vent. Thanks for reading this and anything you have to say will help.

 

[Jennaayy]

People fall out of love...its a part of life. It doesn't make you a bad person it makes you human. You have to understand your sister. She's young and had a kid young. It's very typical for someone who has been with only one person since very young to grow out of love. They are still kids themselves and as you grow older people grow apart. I'm sure your sister is like you said, feeling left out. As she sits home alone with her child it seems the world is passing her by. You can't compare your relationship to your sisters because they are completely different.

My advice is continue to be there for your sis as this can be an extremely difficult process. Try to keep an open mind and heart and be a little more understanding regardless what decision she makes.