Is there anything wrong in my line of thinking?
No sex before marriage is the most ridiculous 'value' idealistic girls still hold on to today. There is absolutely no single good reason for doing it other than the silly idea that it shows some sort of 'commitment' and allows time for people to connect 'emotionally'. Here's a hint, wait till you're ready! don't set some arbitrary condition such as getting married before considering yourself ready for penetration.
The whole idea shouldn't be supported, if someone doesn't want to have sex until marriage that's fine, be an idiot, but the ideology behind it should be ridiculed for what it is, a way to control people. This exactly the type of backward thinking that is making people ashamed of their sexuality.
This is the year 2010, women are no longer slaves to be married at age 12 to be house servants their entire lives. With feminism women now have careers and independence, and certainly don't get married when they hit puberty like they would in the 'olden' days. So waiting till you're in your late 20s to have sex to adhere to some value your parents set for you is simply foolish.
No sex before marriage is the most ridiculous 'value' idealistic girls still hold on to today. There is absolutely no single good reason for doing it other than the silly idea that it shows some sort of 'commitment' and allows time for people to connect 'emotionally'. Here's a hint, wait till you're ready! don't set some arbitrary condition such as getting married before considering yourself ready for penetration.
The whole idea shouldn't be supported, if someone doesn't want to have sex until marriage that's fine, be an idiot, but the ideology behind it should be ridiculed for what it is, a way to control people. This exactly the type of backward thinking that is making people ashamed of their sexuality.
This is the year 2010, women are no longer slaves to be married at age 12 to be house servants their entire lives. With feminism women now have careers and independence, and certainly don't get married when they hit puberty like they would in the 'olden' days. So waiting till you're in your late 20s to have sex to adhere to some value your parents set for you is simply foolish.