I have a good boyfriend but I think not the best. There a lot of times I think that we love each other but he is not good for me for some reasons but I am turning 31 next year. So sometimes I think find myself settling for what is there. Most of you will call me stupid and weak of fear to be alone. But as stupid as you may say, I admit I am afraid to be alone for the rest of my life. This is one, I cant help not to feel. I dont want to be an old maid. Pls. dont misunderstand that I need a man to complete me. I am independent, have a good job, supportive friends and family. But I'm all for sharing in life experiences with someone special and dont want to go through life by myself. I desire to have a family, and share the many good things I have with my husband and children and grandchildren. My question is : how do I do in a situation when I feel I need to leave him but I am afraid, I am getting older and won't find someone else anymore. If I leave him now, it might take a year for me to go dating again, and i ffind someone it will take maybe 2 years to date each other and so i will marry at 35. But if the next rel wont work, i will be in a dating game at age 35 or over! They said if women over 30 ti get married is chancy. I know you wud say it is stupid and weak for me to think this way, but it is the reality, I think this way. Serious advide and enlighten me plsss. The truth plss, not only to make me feel better...