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<blockquote data-quote="Josh" data-source="post: 2092326" data-attributes="member: 207441">So today is the 6th month anniversary for me and my girlfriend. I&#039;ve been pretty unhappy about several things for quite a while, and I just need some help to try and reason things out..---I&#039;ve been trying to think of a good word to describe a couple of these things that I just can&#039;t stand about my girlfriend, but I cant seem to find a good word. Here&#039;s some examples..1) She is very narrow-minded for some things (e.g., She doesn&#039;t understand that I can care about my looks and that I appreciate nice clothes, without being gay-which I have told her I&#039;m not MANY times that I&#039;m not!) 2) She has these very annoying ideals (e.g.,-- I am supposed to pay for EVERYTHING, even though I am a college student with 24 dollars in my bank account.)3) She has this sense of entitlement for mine and even other ppl&#039;s things (e.g., she will just randomly take my room mates drinks from the fridge without asking, until I tell her that it is not OK for her to take his drinks, and then bitches about why I never have drinks--(back to the 24 dollar thing)I definitely want to break up with her, but it&#039;s my first girlfriend, and I&#039;m having trouble just doing it.. What do you think about my complaints, shes obviously has good things about her, but she does these things that I hate so often! Also how are you supposed to know if your in love?-and deciding if the small things you don&#039;t like about a person are worth interfering with love? I know that was a lot, but any advice would be really appreciated..</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Josh, post: 2092326, member: 207441"] So today is the 6th month anniversary for me and my girlfriend. I've been pretty unhappy about several things for quite a while, and I just need some help to try and reason things out.. ---I've been trying to think of a good word to describe a couple of these things that I just can't stand about my girlfriend, but I cant seem to find a good word. Here's some examples.. 1) She is very narrow-minded for some things (e.g., She doesn't understand that I can care about my looks and that I appreciate nice clothes, without being gay-which I have told her I'm not MANY times that I'm not!) 2) She has these very annoying ideals (e.g.,-- I am supposed to pay for EVERYTHING, even though I am a college student with 24 dollars in my bank account.) 3) She has this sense of entitlement for mine and even other ppl's things (e.g., she will just randomly take my room mates drinks from the fridge without asking, until I tell her that it is not OK for her to take his drinks, and then bitches about why I never have drinks--(back to the 24 dollar thing) I definitely want to break up with her, but it's my first girlfriend, and I'm having trouble just doing it.. What do you think about my complaints, shes obviously has good things about her, but she does these things that I hate so often! Also how are you supposed to know if your in love?-and deciding if the small things you don't like about a person are worth interfering with love? I know that was a lot, but any advice would be really appreciated.. [/QUOTE]

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