Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year. we also have a daughter together. When i met him he was engaged. we were suppose to become friends and then one thang led to another and i started getting feelings for him, and vise versa. we started having sex, and then we feel in love. to make a long story short... before me and him met he was with his ex for almost four years and they also have a child. at first me and her didnt get along but now we are cool for the sake of our kids. i apoligized to her because i know i was wrong for what i did. and everything has been good since then. the kids are always together, also me and her talk regularly. me and my boyfriend live together and he is a really good man. he put his kids first and he have his priority's in order. my problem is this. I cannot help but feel like they are still messing around when i have proof and i know for a fact that they are not. she is in a whole nother relationship and is happy with her new man. and i am always around my boyfriend. so he have no time to cheat. i have his phone all the time and he never erases the messages or call log. he cant cheat at work because my uncle is his supervisor and he knows we are together. so he have no time to. but i am really going threw a insecure stage since i just had my baby i picked up a couple extra pounds and i am always stressing about them. I trust him with any other female, except her. because i feel like they were together for so long, feelings have to still be there. i really need help because i am tired of feeling this way. any words of advice would really help.