I'm 24, my [overweight] fiance who I've been with two years is 21 and she has essentially had me change myself slowly to her liking over these past two years..(aka no more smoking, my gaming time has lowered) Weve lived with her mother all this time while she attends school and I try to get a jump on my student loans..but I don't think it's fair that I have had to change myself, and she doesn't feel it necessary to change herself such as laying off the carbohydrates...(her diet consists of 85%+ breads with no excersise.) I'm worried for her health and also the fact that shes a royal bitch when she doesn't get her way..Like a spoiled brat with anger management issues.. Everytime she fights(which she seems to like doing) with me I keep my mouth shut about her faults as to not instantly be homeless. I think I'm actually falling or have already fallen out of love with this person as I find myself thinking more and more on what it would be like if I met someone new who wasn't a raging psychotic slob...Any help on what I should do?