I've been hearing rumors about me from underclassmen like the freshman and sophomores in my school. Im a junior im quite irritated about what they're saying about me, especially since they don't even know me. Most of them think I'm a wh0re that "gets around" which i think is utterly absurd And because my boyfriend is a sophomore, they've been telling him stuff about me too.
The reason they think this is because for one thing i'm a cheerleader, and of course, everyone thinks cheerleaders are stupid blonde tramps. I think it's an idiotic stereotype since most girls in my squad are some of the most intelligent and classy girls i have met.
Another reason is because of my current boyfriend, ex-unofficial boyfriend and best guy friend (ex unofficial boyfriend too). the underclassmen have this crazy idea that i've been dating 3 guys at once. Just if anyone is curious, i've only dated 2 guys and had 2 boyfriends in my entire 17 years, and if i was some tramp, i would have had at least more than one full hand. My best friend and i tried dating freshman year (didn't work out), and the other guy i dated only lasted about 3 crazy weeks (very clingy). Now my current boyfriend and i are seeing each other and i like him, but with these rumors going around, he's been acting strange.
i don't know if he believes them, but i sure hope he doesn't. he knows i nvr kissed a guy, but he's been trying to kiss me a lot. he's not the kind of guy to show emotions so i don't even know what hes thinking or feeling about me. Everyone tells him that i'm to good for him and just using him but it's not true and i feel like with all the false perception on me going around, he's beginning to believe them. Now I'm not even sure if he's into me like he was in the beginning. my friends think he now probably Just wants to see if he could get sumthing out of me before anything, but i don't think so. With all the rumors, our relationship just seems to be crazy and i don't think either of us trust each other. I think We're both doubting each others true intentions and i don't know how to deal with it. i don't even know if that's what he really thinks, i feel like i'm going mental now and over thinking everything.
Has anyone ever been in my position...or a similar position? what should i do? how should i approach the bf problem i'm having?
The reason they think this is because for one thing i'm a cheerleader, and of course, everyone thinks cheerleaders are stupid blonde tramps. I think it's an idiotic stereotype since most girls in my squad are some of the most intelligent and classy girls i have met.
Another reason is because of my current boyfriend, ex-unofficial boyfriend and best guy friend (ex unofficial boyfriend too). the underclassmen have this crazy idea that i've been dating 3 guys at once. Just if anyone is curious, i've only dated 2 guys and had 2 boyfriends in my entire 17 years, and if i was some tramp, i would have had at least more than one full hand. My best friend and i tried dating freshman year (didn't work out), and the other guy i dated only lasted about 3 crazy weeks (very clingy). Now my current boyfriend and i are seeing each other and i like him, but with these rumors going around, he's been acting strange.
i don't know if he believes them, but i sure hope he doesn't. he knows i nvr kissed a guy, but he's been trying to kiss me a lot. he's not the kind of guy to show emotions so i don't even know what hes thinking or feeling about me. Everyone tells him that i'm to good for him and just using him but it's not true and i feel like with all the false perception on me going around, he's beginning to believe them. Now I'm not even sure if he's into me like he was in the beginning. my friends think he now probably Just wants to see if he could get sumthing out of me before anything, but i don't think so. With all the rumors, our relationship just seems to be crazy and i don't think either of us trust each other. I think We're both doubting each others true intentions and i don't know how to deal with it. i don't even know if that's what he really thinks, i feel like i'm going mental now and over thinking everything.
Has anyone ever been in my position...or a similar position? what should i do? how should i approach the bf problem i'm having?