This is very hard because me and my ex are best friends, but we were too attached. I realized i couldn't be so attached. She didn't so that and the fact we weren't "in love" with other is why we decided to end it. We both knew this and it ended good and we still talk a little here and there. I still care for her deeply and want her to have a great and satisfying life and I know she wants the same for me. It's just so hard cause we are truly best friends. How do best friends not talk to each other!!!!!!!!! So we broke up like 2 weeks ago, we were together for 3 years. We still want to have sex with each other. No serious relationship. We agreed we could have sex with other people as long as we used condoms, and as long as we don't tell each other about it. We want to eventually be able to tell each other about are sex life with other people but for now we're not. Anyways I guess the question is can I still get over her if we still talk? And can I get over her if we still have sex? Its just how can't i talk to my best friend... and how do i not have sex with her when best friends help each other out you know