It's the way we argue. She never backs down. I always have to give in. If I ever think `No, this time I'm not giving in` it just escalates. So I feel I always have to fix it alone.
This gives me absolute certainty that she's not right for me.
So I walked away.
She followed.
She's a great girl but we don't argue right. It's how I judge a relationship. There has to be sorrys but I don't get this.
She's a stubborn Taurus, does that mean anything?
I want to walk away even though I know it will hurt me. But she makes it very hard for me.
How do I do this?
This is the only problem I really have with her. Everything else is great. I loved her lack of ego. But then, out of nowhere it comes and she's as stubborn as where I've been before.
At first I concede but now I think to myself `Do I want to do this for the rest of my life? Where's the back bone in that?
Is that my ego?
Should I change my standards of what I expect?
Should I try to change her?
Should I walk away even though she is convinced that is wrong?
This gives me absolute certainty that she's not right for me.
So I walked away.
She followed.
She's a great girl but we don't argue right. It's how I judge a relationship. There has to be sorrys but I don't get this.
She's a stubborn Taurus, does that mean anything?
I want to walk away even though I know it will hurt me. But she makes it very hard for me.
How do I do this?
This is the only problem I really have with her. Everything else is great. I loved her lack of ego. But then, out of nowhere it comes and she's as stubborn as where I've been before.
At first I concede but now I think to myself `Do I want to do this for the rest of my life? Where's the back bone in that?
Is that my ego?
Should I change my standards of what I expect?
Should I try to change her?
Should I walk away even though she is convinced that is wrong?