xGAARAx4EVER
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- Feb 6, 2009
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Alright so this is going to be kind of long. So throughout the whole swimteam there has been this girl. I like her and everything but she has this slight problem about worrying too much. She has high anxieties about every little thing. Also after a race, she does fine or she does better but she gets upset about all this other stuff like saying that she did horrible or she didnt get 4th like she wanted and everything. So i say "well hey, at least you beat your time, and you didnt come completely last" or "hey, you did great you dropped time!" and everything but then she goes on some kind of rampage saying she did horrible and complains.
And recently, ive just been telling her things like "ugh...i dont feel like swimming" and stuff like that or saying "I dont feel good today" or something like that, and then she completely flips out at me for complaining. I know ive complained before about things but it just kinda makes me think that ive had to hear her complain about things and i just let her talk about it and i dont say anything to her about how annoying it can get when she complains at all. But when i say something to her, she completely flips out at me.
am i in the wrong or are we both just misunderstanding each other or is it just me? Thanks to anyone who helps
And recently, ive just been telling her things like "ugh...i dont feel like swimming" and stuff like that or saying "I dont feel good today" or something like that, and then she completely flips out at me for complaining. I know ive complained before about things but it just kinda makes me think that ive had to hear her complain about things and i just let her talk about it and i dont say anything to her about how annoying it can get when she complains at all. But when i say something to her, she completely flips out at me.
am i in the wrong or are we both just misunderstanding each other or is it just me? Thanks to anyone who helps